Originally Posted by
silentC
I'd just liked to point out that several of the guys I ride with occasionally are in their late 50's and 60's and one of them is 72. He rode from Perth to Merimbula about 4 years ago. But this suggestion that being a cyclist implies that one is young and foolish is just a tad insulting.
At the end of the day, as a cyclist I accept that, whilst most motorists have no issue with me being there, a few are going to share your opinions and there is nothing I can do to change that. We will never convince you to accept us, so it's just going to have to be a case of agree to disagree. I will watch out for you, and you just do what you want to do. Let me worry about what might happen.
A few weeks ago I had a delivery truck come past me. I was well over on the shoulder and no impact on him whatsoever, but the young guy in the passenger seat decided to yell out the window at me as they went past. On my way back I saw them parked, so I asked the young guy what he said. He mumbled something about getting on the bike track. I filled him in on the fact that there was no bike track to be on and anyway what problem was I causing him by being there? None of course, he just has a problem with cyclists, so even if they are not doing anything to bother him, he wants to let us know how he feels. I exchanged a few more pleasantries and left it there.
Guess what? I couldn't care less what he thinks of me. Do you think that someone who is prepared to take on traffic on a push bike is going to be put off by something like that? In fact I know a couple of blokes who would have given him a fat lip. Fortunately for him, I'm a lover not a fighter.
I know that some people drive past and think 'faggot'. I've been in the car with people who have said it about other cyclists. I just don't care. Save your fashion advice for someone who is concerned about how they look. I've had stuff thrown at me and had people deliberately cut me off. Water off a duck's back.
I'm not asking you to do anything different. If I can get over enough for you to pass, I will. If I'm riding next to a mate (yes we do talk, it's a very social sport) and you come up behind, I will move over. We choose to ride early morning when there is no traffic. We keep an eye out for cars. The person at the back will call out if one comes up behind. We have a whole bunch of signals we use that you're probably not aware of. I probably know you are there before you even see me.
That's my attitude anyway, and I know plenty of others deal with it the same way. I don't expect you to 'learn to live with it'. I'm not a militant cyclist. I'll just accept that you probably don't want me on the road and otherwise carry on.