I risk sounding like a completly insensitive bitch but here i go anyway
all over the world mothers watch their kids die from bad water, lack of food , bullets in the head, raping bastards etc
we worry about allergies
if a child is allergic to anything they know, at least by the age of primary school , not to share food, they should know how to use an epipen.
these kids can be exposed to nuts on a theatre seat or a swing on the playground.
I have a friend who is a haemopheliac, as a child ,???? happened
I have a son with a bone condition, possiable amputation of leg if exposed to trauma of life.
do I blame scouts when leg fractures again , no
do I try to balence his problem with reality, yes
do I expect the rest of the community to have a complete understanding of risk, no
all I can do is take reasonable precautions and cross my fingers
we all love our kids
to expect the rest of the community to be 100% alert is asking them to be vigilant about problems that they have no understanding of.
these are our problems to bear and we live with it
it is our responsibility to educate our own kids.
astrid
PS schools keeping a supply of common use Epipens might help.
PPS my son has foregone peanut butter sandwitches in school and kinda