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It's just turned 9 am on the first monday of my retirement - just taken the dog for a walk and having a coffee, doing a little jig around the kitchen and LOL! :U
I still get work related email but I am re-directing it to a special email box called IGNORE!
Hi Bob
So, you're one week in
how does it feel
how many hours have you spent in the shed?
how much extra time have you spent with the dogs?
frustrating!Quote:
Originally Posted by ian
WAY less than when I was working!Quote:
how many hours have you spent in the shed?
None but have had a couple of afternoon naps.Quote:
how much extra time have you spent with the dogs?
The reason I'm a bit frustrated is because all I seem to have been doing is driving around in congested traffic looking/pricing/picking up stuff.
It has mostly been a heap of things that I had put off doing for months until the first week of retirement.
Bunnings at least 5 times,
Masters twice
Searles speciality fastenings store twice
Hare and Forbes twice
Timbecon twice
Motor vehicle registration and transfer (that's a quick way to waste a morning)
Picking up MIL at the airport - spent an hour looking for her walking frame!
Picking up a welder from BIL
Picking up empty gas canisters
Picking up a 3 phase motor
Aluminium Store
Steel shop twice
Galv Pipe store
Plus
Plus
I have absolutely nothing to show for the week - hopefully now that I have laid in a stash of stuff things should slowly start coming together.
Bob
One trick that I learned from my Dad during his retirement (and that I'm looking forward to adopting myself in a few years) is to try to ensure that you keep every task down to the same time that it took you when you were working fulltime. He said (and I see it in lots of others) that when you don't have the structure of limited time, Parkinson's Law will apply and the job will expand to fill the available time.
Dad's view was that retirement was a time to get things done, not a time to get through, so make sure that you set a goal and stick to the timing.
I look forward to seeing the results of your labours, now that you've laid in all the supplies!
All the best
I think I have put too many projects off until retirement and now I seem to be running around not achieving any of them. Some priority system needs to be put into place.
Cheers
Bob
Bob, as I have said before [read above to save you hunting for it] - particularly paragraph 3 :BQuote:
Originally Posted by Bob38S
Yeah - hasten s l o w l y is a good motto.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bob38S
Finally got some shed time today and swapped the 1/2 HP Hercus motor over for a 1 HP unit - also properly wired as delta rather than Wye - really good low rev torque now.
G'day Bob
First of all I must apologise. I have been reading your post retirement posts all week and it struck me that while I have been at work coping with meetings, bureaucracy, idiots, incompetence and even incompetent idiots, I realised that not once have I stopped to think about the horrendous week you must have had, coping with lots of time to do lots of things, and not having the benefit of the rigour imposed on your time with commitments that I have enjoyed. Sorry mate, it must have been a nightmare. I will be more thoughtful next week.:U
See you Monday
Cheers Larry
PS 16 week to go
Thanks Larry I knew I could get a word of sympathy and comfort from you. :D
See Post #29. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by BobL
BobL. When you get the prioritizing scheme done please give me a copy
I have the time, the machinery/shed, projects, and most of the gear to get a result. BUT inclination is in short supply. and that breeds frustration.
Yes structure is what I am lacking. With the black dog even a small result has a lack luster result. Its probably got a coating of frustration stuck to it.
Well it's been 9 weeks since I retired and I FINALLY got one of my jobs off the SWMBO list. The jobs was a simple one, purchase/make and fit two insect screen doors to the the two back doors. At the end of March I scored two decorative wooden doors from the kerbside pickup (complete with brass handles and hinges) that looked like they would really suit our older place. SInce then I have been phaphing about to get them to fit as they were 16 mm too narrow and 30 mm short - plus inserting a doggie door in one of them and replacing the insect screening material with strong ally Expanda mesh that the dogs can't damage. Anyway, I can't believe how long it has taken me to do this. Even when I was working I reckon this would not have taken me so long. Admittedly I have been distracted with a blacksmithing course, making a forge and going to Germany for a week. Also I sleep in most mornings, slow paced breakfast, walk the dogs, another coffee and check out the forums way too many times during the day - I'm lucky if I get to the shed by 10:30am. Most afternoons I'm having a short nap so I can't complain too much.
SWMBO is very happy and I'm happy she is happy. The price was very reasonable - basically the cost of the mesh and also put a decent door closer on the one that will get used most often.
Next job is kitchen reno - not a complete reno. We're just changing the oven and cooktop and fixing and repainting the cupboards, might replace the cupboard doors. Bench top will be sanded back to raw wood and two pack epoxy coated - not looking forward to that.
[QUOTE=BobL;1645084]SWMBO is very happy and I'm happy she is happy.
Happy wife...happy life......'on ya Bob:saythat:
Not a problem - you are retired - enjoy it - you have worked long enough,now is the time to enjoy it.Quote:
Originally Posted by BobL
Remember you now can work 3 days - yesterday, today and tomorrow.
Life is too short and there aint no dress rehearsal.
LOL.
Just a crude observation about Bob, from his posts. He's an achiever.
So can he find scope to continue that outside of his profession? Does he have the will? Are shed and house tasks going to meet that bill?
In his shoes, I'd give myself a year's sabbatical and then review.
Depends who you ask. My mum thinks I'm a slack #### because I don't go round and fix her dripping taps the day after she asks, and that I should have had more grandkids and yadda, yadda. . . . . ., and SWMBO reckons I could move on "the list" a little quicker. After some initial frustration with lack of progress or achievement, I'm slowly learning that achievement is not everything. I'm really enjoying just hanging out with the dogs, they make me laugh which is what I really need, and getting into the swing of the the odd afternoon nap.Quote:
Originally Posted by rsser
I visited the place where I used to work 3 times since I left. The place has even less appeal to me than when I left and it's getting less appealing every time I visit.Quote:
So can he find scope to continue that outside of his profession? Does he have the will? Are shed and house tasks going to meet that bill?
That's the plan, but that's all it is.Quote:
In his shoes, I'd give myself a year's sabbatical and then review.
Interesting, I found that as well - now I just don't give a rats ... about itQuote:
Originally Posted by BobL
the people are nice though
Retirement is tricky. I'm on my second go round. Last time after 2 1/2 years I got into a rut and went back to work to get out of it. This time I'm trying to manage better.
Any day or any week where you actually achieve something should be regarded as a big win. Be proud. Those occasions won't come around nearly as often as you might imagine.
Remember to have days off, and proper holidays. Sounds mad but it truly helps.
Coming up to a year mate, hope it has been a good one and the list has got a little shorter.
Cheers,
Mike
Thanks Mike.Quote:
Originally Posted by Burnsy
Things kind of stalled around August with a series of minor health issues that by and large kept me out of the shed. Thing are slowly resolving themselves and am looking forward to a better year in 2014.
At least your getting the health issues sorted Bob,
I put up with my herniated umbilicus for years before I was forced to get it fixed. (My then employer said it was scaring the clients). :doh:
I hope you get this leg issue sorted & squared away to give you a good run at 2014 Bob.
If you need help with the afternoon nap training - I am fully qualified to give advice, as i have perfected it to the point I can now sleep standing up of an afternoon if necessary.
Maybe we need to run a live in 1 week course in retirement skills.
Sleep late,
good coffee,
dog walking,
forums posting
followed by lunch
- then some shed activities
- afternoon tea & a nap,
followed by dinner
next day repeat as above but add in -
tools shopping 101
& buying tools off the intranet,
afternoon tea,
scoping gumtree bargains,
nap, dinner...
I think I have this whole retirement bidness pegged pretty much!. :wink:
A year Bob!! seems like yesterday and that is a bit worrying!!
Was listing our achievements since moving up here just over 18 months ago.
Removed old ( and new) dog smelly carpet and put in floating flooring
Removed old kitchen benchtops. extended one bench and replaced tops.
Renovated ensuite
Renovated main bathroom.
Built deck
Put in roller door for carport
Put timber slats around the house
had some plumbing altered
Re wired parts of house
Had solar panels installed for electricity
Removed about 6 tonnes of rubbish from the transpiration pit.
Removed several trailer loads of old garbage from the yard.
Mowed yard into shape - you know "turned grass into lawn with a Victa".
Planted fruit trees and Brunfelsias.
Lately had side gate installed and I now need to sort out the locking for this.
I am in the process of planting up a long wanted tropical garden.
* Mind you I had help with most of this.
The shed has been fairly much neglected but I did manage to;
Install benches using the old kitchen benchtop for part thereof
Put up racking and shelving using almost 100% recycled material.
Also cleared the jungle from around the pool and laid down white pebbles.
Next on the list is a screen (SWMBO job) for one end of the deck.
SWMBO also wants the house painted!!!:C
SWMBO has a chest of drawers on the to do list.
I have plans to build in a section under the house as a secure storage area or my mowers, blowe
whipper snipper and other assorted bits. That will give me more shed room.
I also need to fix an area under the deck/house for Ana to do her pottery.
I think my retirement is well sorted.!!
Amongst all this we had several trips to Brisbane and the Gold Coast, including time for
my brain drain.
I'm pooped!!!
I've always been an early riser, but I've found that since I retired and don't have to, it's much easier.
Youth, fitness, good health, enthusiasm is definitely wasted on the young……..
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Originally Posted by Bob38S
Yes Bob I couldn't agree more!!!
At last, we have TIME to do all those things that paid work precluded but.....its hard to move around- beginning of arthritis, hard to see fine work- failing eyesight, what you did yesterday affects what you try to do today- aching muscles and joints. And so it goes on
One thing though....to see a doctor doesn't mean you have to take time off work:no: but you have to wait a while to get in
Yep agree whole heartedly. One thing I am slowly coming to grips with is just relaxing and going with the flow. Not worrying about if it does not happen today, it might happen tomorrow and not stressing if it never happens. One sign of this is not minding if someone needs to go ahead of me on something, e.g. a mum with a couple of young kids in tow, or an even older person who clearly is being stressed our for whatever reason.Quote:
Originally Posted by chambezio
Going with the flow is the only way to go. I was going to play Larry with a big stick on being retired. Didn't happen, did it?Quote:
Originally Posted by BobL
Most of my plans have been put on hold, modified or totally scrapped. For a long time over the last couple of years I simply
couldn't be bothered doing much. Despite that I have done quite a bit, albeit with a fair degree of help.
The discovery of the brain problem and its subsequent treatment has given me a new lease on life.
I still take things easy because I need to and not because I''m a lazy bugger as I had begun to think about myself.
If something isn't done today there is always another day.