Our experience with Sanden mirrors what you describe - it draws around 900W, and is virtually silent even standing right next to it. Sanden tanks are stainless, although we have the tank under cover in the garage (a purpose-designed nook where the old Quantum HWS used to live). The compressor unit lives outdoors in a services area on the other side of the wall from the tank. The Sanden unit is MUCH quieter than our old Quantum heat pump HWS, which used to sound like a very noisy refrigerator when running.
I haven't bothered yet, but it is possible via the display panel on the side of the Sanden to set up times that the unit is allowed to run - you have to remove the metal cover to get at the control panel. Since we're running 5kW of solar I had planned to set the Sanden up to only run during sun hours, but with an overall house power bill for the last quarter of $65 (including some use of aircon) it hardly seems worth it.