Ok
Time for my 2c worth. I've kept out until now, so you've all ahd your chance.
1. These are not the best of times, but there the only times we've got.
2. Nature and or nurture are to blame equally.
3. I worked in some pretty easy schools and some pretty darn tough ones, and the song remains the same, kids will muck up as much as you let them.
Same with a society, people will obey laws if those laws make sense to them eg. people will drive at a sensible speed on a strange road even if there is not a policeman for miles, why? because it makes sense. People also will disobey a law that seems stupid to them. Also people will break rules if the punishments are given arbitrarily (like drink driving punishments) or if there is any sign of weakness in the authority.
4. I've taught in two different schools in this town for nearly fifteen years now and the difference is astounding. The kids are the same, they eat the same food, drink the same (soon to be flouridated) water, and have essentially the same socio economic backgrounds. The difference is the expectations placed on them, where I work now the kids know the consequences are certain. They don't have to be severe, just certain. That, I think, is the answer. Start with your own family and community and don't expect others to do the disciplining. is right, it all starts with self respect and self discipline.
5. Recently I bought some mujingfang planes through CraigB who bought them and sent them to me and I sent him the money. I never thought of not paying and he never thought of not sending them. We respected each other enough as users of this BB and as people who share a hobby to not try anything fishy. Does this mean I'm a good person or a self interested ar3ehole who is only out to protect his reputation on this BB? Possibly either answer. I'd prefer to think the former. I know my mum would kill me if she thought I'd ever stolen anything, the same as I made my kids take back the macdonalds tray they were very proud of having.
6. The very fact that we spend so much time on such a topic is proof that we aren't all bad. But is teasing others like we are wont to do also bad???
In that case I'm a real sinner, and therefore better stop ranting, sorry about the long diatribe. :)