... looking for SHED's anywhere!
Reading this thread with some personal interest.
Few years ago, I seriously needed & wanted to join a "Woodworking/Shed/Group" of any kind... struggling with grief I'd realised that socially I needed to interact with fellow woodworkers(male or female) just needed like-wise, understanding, fellow wood-enthusiasts that would inspire, involve & encourage my woodworking skills to either help, learn or participate in community active programmes.
So, enquired locally & found a group who made toy's & pottered... it wasn't a Men in Sheds Group...But a Community Active for both women & men attend the Community-Centre run facility...however there were only 6 men who participate in the wood-workshop section. On being shown & introduced through the complex on my very first visit... I was stunned & horrified when one self-elected(& obviously self-conceited arrogant pompous ASS...) participating member who was asked to show me around...obviously very audacious & ill-mannered he asked me, WHY did I want to come outside in the shed & use up bench space.... when the men didn't really want me there, instead of doing craft work with the women next door, stick to needle work & unimportant stuff that WOMEN SHOULD DO...!!!!
OMG I was STUNNED & BEWILDERED
I dissolved into tears immediately & hence became reclusive for the next 3 years... didn't want to mix or go out...
Shunned my woodwork...
Self doubted my passion & ability...
I'd ventured out at a time that was emotionally & personally very traumatic to me... & some jerk, just shattered my belief that "woodworker" were the friendliest & helpful group of people you could meet............ why did I think that ???? because I'd met, either personally or online many forum members & chatted to fellow Ubeaut participants from all over the world & presumed woodworkers were all like us..... mmmm WRONG!
I've only just re-established my links back here... & started making furniture again....
Now coping emotionally, time is healing my grief & I'm stronger & believe that it's absolutely imperative that all groups cater for both MEN & WOMEN...
*** NOW THIS IS THE PART THAT SURPRISED ME....& as much as this scarred me for mixing...
I actually came away from the day, with one consoling memory... & for most of you who've seen my work (pictures in the Albums) & read my posts, or met me at Ubeaut BBQ's in Perth... will know that I can actually do some pretty good woodwork....(trying to be modest... hehehe)
BUT honestly.. the workmen-ship that I saw during that one quick walk through was far below average... in fact it was sadly lacking of any quality. SO... I didn't complain or attempt to go back.
Decided that I'd spend my time better doing woodwork solo... It was a no win situation... IF I'd persevered & returned... I would have been ostracised from the group, due to being female or being of a better standard than any of them!
NOW strong enough after 3 years to re-visit and perhaps before I approach or join the members who attend, I'll facilitate a proposal & meet with the directors with an exciting concept & structured programs to initiate a WOMAN's WOODWORKING day. Using my example as the floor plan... as that was the one thing I did... after bursting into tears & initially driving off... I reversed up... walked straight into the manages office & told them what I thought of the insulting members inside.....
EVERYONE should remember ... thoughtfulness, compassion & kindness is FREE....
Only those who chose not to incorporate these into everyday life are arrogant, bumptuous, self-absorbed, egotistical & supercilious morons.... !!!
Ops... I guess they really did upset me!
Time to venture out again!
Share & Care... :U:2tsup:
Pottery wheel looking for home
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Originally Posted by
MAPLEMAN
'Mens Sheds' are popping up all over the place,which is great..but what about the idea of 'Womens Sheds',as they too(women) enjoy woodwork/craft etc!And they too need and deserve a place to unwind and be creative and social :;.Just thought i'd put the idea out there,hope it comes to fruition..Cheers MM :2tsup:
G'day all,
Thought this might be a good place to let anyone know in Mens or Womens sheds that we have an electric pottery wheel
that is looking for a home,so if you are, or if you know anyone who is after one, this might be ideal.
It's in good cond working order and it's free.
I'm 10 klm east of Melbourne.
If you're interested,send me a message and I'll send you my ph number.
Thanks and all the best........Polski