I work for a Greywater Diversion company (I won't say which one due to any conflicts of interest).
Basically, you need to buy/install an approved system to be 'legal'. The 44 gallon drum or the wheelie bin is all well and good but don't let your local Council Inspector see it, nor allow the water to pond or run off or store for longer than 24 hours as previously mentioned. Greywater is better distributed sub-surface, no spraying with the hose to avoid the runoff, smell and any chance of airborne pathogens associated with the dirty water. Do not use greywater on your root vegetables either. Use garden-safe washing machine detergents such as No Phospates and Low Sodium.
Approved systems must be Watermark licensed and installed by a licensed plumber when cutting back into the waste/sewer or grabbing shower/bath fixtures to have any chance of receiving your rebate. Also, your local council will have specific rules regarding the the use of greywater on your property. Some councils, such as Toowoomba in QLD, ban the use of diversion systems.
Here is a list of the approved systems in QLD:
http://www.lgp.qld.gov.au/?id=4077
That list does not seem to be all inclusive. Nor does the Watermark search have all of the currently licensed products.
2 of the products on that list are gravity-fed diversion systems so they use no moving parts (the Nylex Greywatwer Diverter seems limited in it's abilities). The others are pressurised systems using sump pumps and controllers. Some are fully installed systems with proprietary drip irrigation, some are DIY.
If you are going to the 'dodgy' route using a sump pump in a drum, the best way to distribute your water would be to slide some 19 mm low-pol through a socked ag-pipe. Before you do, take a 2mm drill bit and drill the 19mm a couple of times every foot or so. Trench the agpipe into your garden bed and put a tap on the end of the line, with access, to allow you to flush out the filth with some fresh water every month or so. Create a manifold of taps close to your pump or garden beds so you don't spread too much water over too great a distance so each large garden bed is it's own separate irrigated area.
Any questions I will gladly answer them here or in a PM.
Edit: Here is the link to the certifying body with each certified product listed (2 pages):
http://standardsmark.saiglobal.com/C...=6&pageIndex=0