Originally Posted by
munruben
Must admit I always get confused between affect and effect.
I think it's a bit unfair to judge people by the way they compose a letter. We have not all been subjected to the same education that some others have had through no fault of our own. I, through circumstances that were not my doing, left school when I was 9 years old and had no other education from that point on in my life.
Luckily the education system, to my mind, was better in those days and by the time I did leave school, I could read and write to a certain degree. Over the years that followed, I taught myself, through reading books, most of the things I wanted to learn. I guess I was lucky too to have been brought up in the era of would be employers; giving an opportunity to employees, who didn't have those bits of paper that said you could do something, a chance to show they could do the job and giving them a go.
From a very young age I worked for myself and again through circumstances that were not of my making but illness in the family, I had to take over as head of my family and provide for them when I was only 18 years of age.
I didn't have time to read books any more or wonder if I was speaking the Queens English. I had to get on with the job of keeping our family together. I hope people don't judge me by the way I compose a letter if it isn't up to their standards. I'm sorry if I offend anyone by the way I write but I just didn't have the time. The only qualification I ever achieved was to qualify as a computer repairer when I was nearly 60 years old.
We are not all born equal in this world and some of us don't get the opportunities that others may have had and I am not bitter about that, good luck to anyone who has a great education and can write excellent letters.
I did fine in my life without being able to compose a letter to standards that some seem to expect. Yes! I would like to be educated to the standard some others are in this world, but I am what I am and if it takes being able to write a letter professionally, to be someones friend then I guess I will be missing a few friends