Unapproved Visitor Messages?

This is new to me. People are sending me PM's but they don't appear in the normal way. When I click on a box to answer it says I must only use that to report a post. When I try to delete the messages I get a message 'Why do you want to remove it?'
When I get a PM, I simply like to answer it how I always have. When the message is a few weeks old I delete it.
In answering the unapproved message, am I now in some type of chat room?
One message was dated some time ago, should I have been looking somewhere else for these messages.
Graham

G'day Graham,
Are these PM's or Visitor Messages??

A screen shot would be helpful, to translate English into . . . . English.:wink:

Cheers,
Joe

Visitor Messages have been approved now, so all should be fine now Graham :2tsup:

Thanks,

They were visitor messages. I hadn't had them before.
Graham